emotional intelligence is very rare in people.i have countlless friends,in which is very hard to decide who is emotional intelligent.if i looked at my family there is one person i knw is my sister.before i thought its just a skill that u know how to talk to the people...but when u explained it to me then i realised that its not about skills...when you tell something to other person and other person said the exact word u wanted to listen....he or she is emotional intellegent.